thanks guys, I got all the bugs worked out. I found a wire that I didn't connect, but longhorn was also right, I accidently put an 1156 in the taillight socket
btw, are the front marker lights supposed to flash with the bumper signal lights flash?? Everything is working correctly now, but only the pass. side marker flashes when the bumper flashes?? it's been a while since i've had the truck on the road, but i'm pretty sure they both flashed before......hmmm