ok, so i got my fender to fit properly tonight after work, took a little bit of grinding, but i got it to fit after attaching the fender to the wheel well itself first, and completely removing all the bolts holding the wheel well in place, positioned it, ground the excess metal away to a good edge with a good amount of space in between the door and the fender. and resulted with a fitting panel, moving on to wet sanding soon.
this is the before and after, in the before you can see how the rocker extended past, since taking it off and moving it to the left more was out of the question (already lined up perfectly on the left side), i just held a curved piece of metal against the rocker and bumped the right side of it until it was even with the door, had some marks on it and some bad scratches so i had to fill in and sand away all the puddy, dont have any finished looking pic sorry
and this is after with the fender on
