Hey 72ChevyGuy. 85 and I40 join up in Greensboro and then split again a few miles outside of Durham. You would stay on 85 to get to our place. Check out the link and look for the star for a better idea. We are actually about 12 miles from both Raleigh and Durham. It's kind of in the middle to the north.
http://www.mapquest.com/maps/map.adp...submit=Get+Map