the male end is easily removed using a tiny flat blade screwdriver and depressing the tab that locks it in. I've broke a few tabs, and depressed a few and pulled the entire terminal out. Ultimately the end result is the same; it comes free! I could explain it over and over using text, but it's something that's best to just look at for yourself and figure out.
Napa and many online outlets sell the terminals if you don't have any on hand.
Best of luck!!!!
