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Davy · 08-12-2004, 10:02 AM

Man that blows my whole day!! And I don't know you outside this board.

Not to get into your business, but are you sure it can't be worked out? Maybe it's just a passing thing???

Whatever happens, please don't leave the board. I love your input here.

Davy

**Yukon Jack** · 08-12-2004, 10:17 AM

I am truly sorry this is happening to you. You are being too nice in just giving up the Blazer. He can drive a work truck - he made the choice to say he wanted a divorce.

Please stick around, there are a lot of people who think alot of you and are here for you!

MMGOODIE · 08-12-2004, 10:25 AM

WOW...this is mind boggling. I have read a lot of these but this one really, really made my jaw drop. I can't believe that this is happening to you. After all of the work you have put in to the Blaz this sucks.

We are always here for you Diane.

On a lighter side don't for get what Frank just picked up

I am sorry to here of this news.

junkyardjohn · 08-12-2004, 10:43 AM

WOW DIANNE... BUMMER. I KNOW EVERYONE HAS LOTS OF WELL-MEANING ADVICE FOR YA & WELL.... HERES MINE. DON'T SIGN, OR AGREE TO ANYTHING TILL YOU TALK TO A LAWER!! (& I CAN'T STAND LAWERS) EVERY TRUCK GUY I KNOW WOULD LOVE TO HAVE THEY'RE WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND TO TAKE AN INTEREST IN THEY'RE HOBBY LIKE YOU HAVE. HANG IN THERE, & IN NO TIME YOU'LL BE BRIGHTENING SOME LUCKY GUYS DAYS.

JOHN

1970blazin · 08-12-2004, 10:53 AM

Thanks for all the words of encouragement.
He is the one who wants the divorce...I definately DO NOT. I can't even believe this is happening. He offered for me to keep the blazer, but I feel like the memories of him in that blazer would be too much for me. Someday there will be another one in my future...blazer that is

Right now I am just focusing on my 2 kids, and trying to not cry every minute.

I will be okay in time...
for those of you that have been here...thanks for the advice. It is early in this process, but I don't feel like I want to ruin him---I just want half- just like him, and to move on and find a new life. I am scared, but I am also VERY strong. Thanks to all!
Diane

dubie · 08-12-2004, 11:25 AM

Diane

From reading your posts over the past year or so, we can tell you're a strong person. I couldn't imagine the stress this is causing on you and your family, but as others have said, keep your chin up. It's his loss ( and a BIG one at that) not yours. You seem like the kind of lady every guy wants by his side. I have one of my own that loves working on the trucks and takes great interest in anything auto related. I'm sure you will come thru this even stronger and we wish you all the best. You know you always have a ton of shoulders to cry on here and we'll all be here for you.

sactoC10 · 08-12-2004, 11:34 AM

Been there, felt that... miserable time of life, it will PASS (even though at times it will feel that it won't). As for the truck, just hang in there... there are plenty of great project vehicles out there and you will one day have another.

As for the mess...well if you don't HAVE to retain an attorney, don't. Yet do not sign a single thing without some sound legal advice. It is HELL, it is UGLY and it HURTS, but you CAN get through it and your kids NEED YOU TO.

Also, don't be afraid to get help... I needed plenty when I faced similar trials and tribulations.

Jeffrey

1971c10 · 08-12-2004, 04:15 PM

DAng

Zumo · 08-12-2004, 04:33 PM

Sorry to hear that. I was married almost 7 years when my 1st wife asked for a divorce. I didn't want it at first but then the more I thought about it, it was mutual, not the same situation as yours but it's tough starting over. I remarried a few years later and am happier than I ever was. Good luck to you.

vtblazer · 08-12-2004, 05:10 PM

Diane,
Ditto to all that's been said already, your a great addition to the board

take care and be well.

**BOSS** · 08-12-2004, 05:52 PM

Diane,

I know you dont know me and we have never met but i have been where you are now and it will get better.It will hurt and seem like it will never,but it takes awhile.I do think you should at least get half of everything and that includes the blazer,after all you have time invested as well.I dont know the situation but could you see someone else riding in the truck with him?I am sure he would feel the same,therefore if you sold the blazer that would be a good start on another one that would be just yours.If there is anything that i can help with just let me know.Sorry for what you are and will be going through.

Rdrdave · 08-12-2004, 06:52 PM

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I enjoyed watching you build the blazer even if I only read about it. Just a reminder there's a song " I will survive" and I think you will! Keep your head up and best of luck to you and the boys.

**72 Super** · 08-12-2004, 07:17 PM

Diane, so sorry to hear this.Hang in there things will get better for you.

Ray

**Palf70Step** · 08-12-2004, 07:30 PM

Sorry to hear the news. Definitely stick around. Having friends and folks who listen (even though some of us are on the weird side) are a real plus during times like this. Been there, hope the transistion goes as smooth as possible.

Blazer1970 · 08-12-2004, 07:40 PM

That is a bad situation all around. It was obvious from your posts that you had a passion for the Blazer. Bottom line though is that it is only a truck, and you can always get another one sometime. It is really not good to get too attached to a vehicle or any other inanimate object.

70ChevyLongbed · 08-12-2004, 09:54 PM

Not much else I can add that hasn't already been said... but I wanted to wish you the best in the tough time ahead.

weasel29gm · 08-12-2004, 10:59 PM

Seems like everything has been said, just hang in, don't agree or sign without legal advice. Hope it works out.

LeRoy · 08-13-2004, 10:42 AM

I feel your pain. I too am going thru the same mess and the best thing is to just keep busy. I believe things happen for a reason. I agree that you shouldn't take him to the cleaners. That just makes things worse. Sounds like you have the right attitude. If you need to get away, bring the kiddies down and my boy and I will take you guys to the beach or something. In the Blaz of course. Chin up!!! That darn saying "what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger" keeps running thru my head, lol

sactoC10 · 08-13-2004, 12:26 PM

There was a movie about three guys in the same boat, Randy Quaid was one of them (can't remember the name of the movie) but the funny part at one point was when he went on a MISSION of DESTRUCTION on the porch that he'd built at the house for he and his former wife.

Can honestly say that it looked really great watching him "act out" the venting of that frustration. Maybe you can think of yourself like that girl in the recent Toyota commercial who tosses her man's truck off a cliff. In the end no one or nothing is hurt, but it is fun to imagine!

08-12-2004, 10:02 AM	#26
Davy Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Rice, Minnesota Posts: 370	Man that blows my whole day!! And I don't know you outside this board. Not to get into your business, but are you sure it can't be worked out? Maybe it's just a passing thing??? Whatever happens, please don't leave the board. I love your input here. Davy __________________ 1970 Blazer CST Looking for NOS items for my CST restoration.

08-12-2004, 10:17 AM	#27
Yukon Jack Post Whore Join Date: Feb 2000 Location: Rose Hill, KS, USA Posts: 12,686	I am truly sorry this is happening to you. You are being too nice in just giving up the Blazer. He can drive a work truck - he made the choice to say he wanted a divorce. Please stick around, there are a lot of people who think alot of you and are here for you! __________________ 1970 Blazer with a 400 sbc and 4" lift 1980 Pontiac Trans Am, 455 Oldsmobile 2012 Kawasaki Concours 14

08-12-2004, 10:25 AM	#28
MMGOODIE I love doing it topless Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: MossyRock, WA Posts: 493	WOW...this is mind boggling. I have read a lot of these but this one really, really made my jaw drop. I can't believe that this is happening to you. After all of the work you have put in to the Blaz this sucks. We are always here for you Diane. On a lighter side don't for get what Frank just picked up I am sorry to here of this news. __________________ Mikey "If you can read this, thank a teacher; If you are reading it in English, thank a soldier."

08-12-2004, 10:43 AM	#29
junkyardjohn Registered User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: SOMERSET KY. Posts: 6,425	WOW DIANNE... BUMMER. I KNOW EVERYONE HAS LOTS OF WELL-MEANING ADVICE FOR YA & WELL.... HERES MINE. DON'T SIGN, OR AGREE TO ANYTHING TILL YOU TALK TO A LAWER!! (& I CAN'T STAND LAWERS) EVERY TRUCK GUY I KNOW WOULD LOVE TO HAVE THEY'RE WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND TO TAKE AN INTEREST IN THEY'RE HOBBY LIKE YOU HAVE. HANG IN THERE, & IN NO TIME YOU'LL BE BRIGHTENING SOME LUCKY GUYS DAYS. JOHN __________________ junkyardjohn 69 1 TON TOW TRUCK // 84 4WD CUCV BLAZER// 85 1 TON 4WD STAKE TRUCK// 86 M1031 5/4 TON 4WD CUCV// ALOT OF OLD TRUCKS FOR ONE OLD MAN TO DRIVE. THERES ROOM FOR ALL OF GODS CREATURES RIGHT NEXT TO MY MASHED POTATOES// LIFE MEMBER OF P.E.T.A (PEOPLE EATING TASTY ANIMALS) DON'T RENT U-HAUL ALWAYS TELL THE TRUTH IT WILL AMAZE PART OF THE PEOPLE & ASTONISH THE REST

08-12-2004, 10:53 AM	#30
1970blazin Blazerless:-( Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Olympia WA Posts: 1,612	Thanks for all the words of encouragement. He is the one who wants the divorce...I definately DO NOT. I can't even believe this is happening. He offered for me to keep the blazer, but I feel like the memories of him in that blazer would be too much for me. Someday there will be another one in my future...blazer that is Right now I am just focusing on my 2 kids, and trying to not cry every minute. I will be okay in time... for those of you that have been here...thanks for the advice. It is early in this process, but I don't feel like I want to ruin him---I just want half- just like him, and to move on and find a new life. I am scared, but I am also VERY strong. Thanks to all! Diane __________________ 1970blazin 1970 CST Blazer-Orig. Dark Blue-SOLD Progress Pics of Blazer for sale

08-12-2004, 11:25 AM	#31
dubie Registered User Join Date: May 2000 Location: Flin Flon, Manitoba, Canada Posts: 8,853	Diane From reading your posts over the past year or so, we can tell you're a strong person. I couldn't imagine the stress this is causing on you and your family, but as others have said, keep your chin up. It's his loss ( and a BIG one at that) not yours. You seem like the kind of lady every guy wants by his side. I have one of my own that loves working on the trucks and takes great interest in anything auto related. I'm sure you will come thru this even stronger and we wish you all the best. You know you always have a ton of shoulders to cry on here and we'll all be here for you. __________________ My name's Tim and I'm a truckaholic My 56 Chevy shop truck build http://67-72chevytrucks.com/vboard/s...d.php?t=562795

08-12-2004, 11:34 AM	#32
sactoC10 71 DELUX Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Northern CA / Sac Posts: 1,055	suck-o-rama Been there, felt that... miserable time of life, it will PASS (even though at times it will feel that it won't). As for the truck, just hang in there... there are plenty of great project vehicles out there and you will one day have another. As for the mess...well if you don't HAVE to retain an attorney, don't. Yet do not sign a single thing without some sound legal advice. It is HELL, it is UGLY and it HURTS, but you CAN get through it and your kids NEED YOU TO. Also, don't be afraid to get help... I needed plenty when I faced similar trials and tribulations. Jeffrey __________________ 5/4 drop LWB wood bed - 15x8 front 235/60 - 15x10 rear 295/50 2003 FORD Escape 1998 Honda VTR1000

08-12-2004, 04:15 PM	#33
1971c10 You talkin to ME! Join Date: May 2004 Location: Skyline, Alabama Posts: 176	... DAng __________________ Is this yours? PM If it is. 1998 Dodge Dakota Sport-Sold 1971 C10 Auto/307-Sold 1966 Mustang-sold 1976 GMC Short bed 1999 Ford Mustang 2002 Dodge Neon

08-12-2004, 04:33 PM	#34
Zumo Hot Rods For Life Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Waxahachie, TX Posts: 3,305	Sorry to hear that. I was married almost 7 years when my 1st wife asked for a divorce. I didn't want it at first but then the more I thought about it, it was mutual, not the same situation as yours but it's tough starting over. I remarried a few years later and am happier than I ever was. Good luck to you. __________________ 1968 C10 LWB **SOLD* Andy Viva Los Bicicletas! Los Muertos Custom Bicycles

08-12-2004, 05:10 PM	#35
vtblazer Registered User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Central Vermont Posts: 8,537	Life Diane, Ditto to all that's been said already, your a great addition to the board take care and be well.

08-12-2004, 05:52 PM	#36
BOSS Just here to help Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Norwood,Mo Posts: 3,890	Diane, I know you dont know me and we have never met but i have been where you are now and it will get better.It will hurt and seem like it will never,but it takes awhile.I do think you should at least get half of everything and that includes the blazer,after all you have time invested as well.I dont know the situation but could you see someone else riding in the truck with him?I am sure he would feel the same,therefore if you sold the blazer that would be a good start on another one that would be just yours.If there is anything that i can help with just let me know.Sorry for what you are and will be going through. __________________ Support our site Norwood Survivor

08-12-2004, 06:52 PM	#37
Rdrdave Broke and still trying Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Alameda, CA Posts: 562	I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I enjoyed watching you build the blazer even if I only read about it. Just a reminder there's a song " I will survive" and I think you will! Keep your head up and best of luck to you and the boys.

08-12-2004, 07:17 PM	#38
72 Super Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Hyattsville, Maryland Posts: 3,685	Diane, so sorry to hear this.Hang in there things will get better for you. Ray __________________ 72 Cheyenne Super (Purchased new by my parents in August of 71) Black and White

08-12-2004, 07:30 PM	#39
Palf70Step State of Confusion! Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Gulfport, MS USA Posts: 47,216	Sorry to hear the news. Definitely stick around. Having friends and folks who listen (even though some of us are on the weird side) are a real plus during times like this. Been there, hope the transistion goes as smooth as possible. __________________ Bill 1970 Chevy Custom/10 LWB Fleetside 2010 Toyota Tacoma PreRunner SR5 Double Cab - DD Member of Louisiana Classic Truck Club (LCTC) Bill's Gallery Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift. Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God!

08-12-2004, 07:40 PM	#40
Blazer1970 Registered User Join Date: Dec 1999 Location: Old Mission, MI, USA Posts: 2,507	That is a bad situation all around. It was obvious from your posts that you had a passion for the Blazer. Bottom line though is that it is only a truck, and you can always get another one sometime. It is really not good to get too attached to a vehicle or any other inanimate object. __________________ Tim



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08-12-2004, 09:54 PM	#41
70ChevyLongbed Howzit?!? Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Maryville, TN Posts: 1,265	Not much else I can add that hasn't already been said... but I wanted to wish you the best in the tough time ahead. __________________ Jason Hawaiian-J 70 Longbed, 307, Edelbrock Carb 1404, Edelbrock Intake 2101, Dual Roller Timing chain and gears, 214/214 cam, Comp Roller Rockers, dual Flowmasters. 1999 Chevy Tahoe 2004 Mini Cooper S 71 BMW 2002 - Sold

08-12-2004, 10:59 PM	#42
weasel29gm SLOW BUT SURE,BUT CLOSER Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: eleanor wv usa Posts: 3,096	Seems like everything has been said, just hang in, don't agree or sign without legal advice. Hope it works out. __________________ 69 C-10, OWNED 38YRS... 350 over 30, 350 Turbo, 3:73 Posi P/S, P/B Black with red and black int. ''LOVE THESE OLD ''TRUCKS.......

08-13-2004, 10:42 AM	#43
LeRoy Registered truck nut Join Date: Dec 1999 Location: Mt. Vernon, Washington, USA Posts: 1,584	I feel your pain. I too am going thru the same mess and the best thing is to just keep busy. I believe things happen for a reason. I agree that you shouldn't take him to the cleaners. That just makes things worse. Sounds like you have the right attitude. If you need to get away, bring the kiddies down and my boy and I will take you guys to the beach or something. In the Blaz of course. Chin up!!! That darn saying "what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger" keeps running thru my head, lol __________________ MOUNT VERNON, WASH. STATE Need a part? Just PM me

08-13-2004, 12:26 PM	#44
sactoC10 71 DELUX Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Northern CA / Sac Posts: 1,055	There was a movie about three guys in the same boat, Randy Quaid was one of them (can't remember the name of the movie) but the funny part at one point was when he went on a MISSION of DESTRUCTION on the porch that he'd built at the house for he and his former wife. Can honestly say that it looked really great watching him "act out" the venting of that frustration. Maybe you can think of yourself like that girl in the recent Toyota commercial who tosses her man's truck off a cliff. In the end no one or nothing is hurt, but it is fun to imagine! __________________ 5/4 drop LWB wood bed - 15x8 front 235/60 - 15x10 rear 295/50 2003 FORD Escape 1998 Honda VTR1000

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