Auto crossmember question...help.

[ChevyDude]

Well my trans is bolted to the bolt starter lines up perfect with the flexplate, so bolted that in. Started to slide the auto crossmember so it will bolt up with the 700r4 rubber pad bolt down area. I couldn't get those bolts to line up, need to losen my engine mounts and "handle it" or "persuade it a little...that shouldn't be a problem. What looks like a problem is holes in the frame for securing the Auto Crossmember??? Didn't look like any were going to line up and drilling while the cab is on??? How the heck did you guys do this???

Thanks

Alex