Upper Ball joint once again.

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Asked about this before and now after CPP has told me to bad its the right part not our problem I thought I would post up a pic and see if I myself am wrong or if this looks correct. As you can see the ball joint does not sit down into my arm and when I attempted to install one it bent the flanges of the ball join down to the arm squishing out the gasket.. I have never had this happen before so I say its wrong.. Now I believe the joint I tried to install is no good with the flanges bent and the gasket squished out.. I was told "this is the way they are made"... Any insight would be helpful.. Never done one on a 60 chev truck but I never had this happen on any Abody.. Thanks