Need some recommendations

[Chevy_mud_truck]

I'm getting closer to having all the part need to start building but in need a little help. 1978 crew cab dually with a 99 24 valve cummins nv4500 60 front 80 rear with 4:10 gears 35" tall tires fass lift pump arp head studs. The truck will be used for towing and daily driver I looking for recommendations on turbos and injectors or turbo and programmer or do all three I looking for a strong towing and clean as possible exhaust I absolutely don't want it belching black smoke some black hazing till the turbo lights I can dill with but I don't want to smoke everyone out every time I pull out I've just about ready to start pulling my hair out trying to research it my self on the internet I'm hoping someone with some real hands on experience might help by share some knowledge Thanks