Whats happening to our board???

[teeitup]

Ok I've been on here for quite awhile and dealt with ALOT of members. I've talked to some members about this and a couple told me to start a thread so here goes.
1) Whats the deal with with guys that get paid for parts and put off shipping for months or so. You have the other guys money send out the parts, no excuses, you think you can take someones money and they won't be upset. You would want your parts! This has not happened to me but I read threads that is has.
2) I've had this happen and so has other members. I post parts on here, guys say they want it and to get a shipping price. So I get the part boxed up and go down and get a shipping price. Then when I pm them with the total, they tell they don't want it for one reason or another sometimes they say they don't have the $$$ but then I see them asking about other parts on the board. Now my time is wasted. I got 10 boxes with parts setting here that guys wanted and then backed out. I guess I'm lucky they were smaller parts because if I spent time boxing up big parts, I'd be more upset.
Now I try to deal as easy as I can, I treat people the way I want to get treated, my biggest problems in my dealings is shipping big stuff (which I don't do) and boxes, I don't give out shipping price until I have a box to put it in. Sorry for rambling on. Randy