Air ride instal help

[IAFF2407]

as Liverat can attest, wiring is my demon, does anyone have a install diagram they can pm me?

I don’t have the install directions, I HATE electrical, whom ever invented the word Ohm is sadistic, Om is for meditation – relieves stress not creates it!
Anyways, the relay harness is straight forward cause the wires are labeled. Switch box connects to the computer, easy enough. That big black coil thing plugs to the black of the computer, easy again. From the black coil of wires to the multi colored wire coil with the 4 plugs, ok, don’t know which ones to plug into on the valve assembly. For the really stressed out part is 1* the multiple colored coil of wires that plug into the computer (2 plugs) that are un-ended(made that term up), what to do? And 2* on the valve manifold those 1/8’ red inlets – would they be needed for the gauges?
3* how do I wire up for the tank (even though I haven’t decided if I’m using a tank), am I missing some wires or are those in the ball of mult colored wires, god, I need a drink now..

I’m ok with hooking the air lines (mechanical)

thx in advance

Al.