did this really just happen

[Chevy Fleetside]

So ... Are you still going to marry her? That is your choice but if so I think I would wait a bit more just to see what happens. Personally, I would give her her walking papers if she did that to my truck.

[pat 70/71]

front windows run around $100.00 think how much $$ you will save in the long run. kick her sorry a** to the curb call it even! do it now!! cheers, Pat

[heartbeat96]

Never look at or talk to her again imo.

It's your great grandfather's truck!

[67ChevyRedneck]

Originally Posted by teezyboi817

i was at work and i dint notice it till the morning after and I'm glad it was the window instead of the window but at the same time i wish it was the door or fender i could have went and got a used one at the junk yard or something.....n no need to run from her because if i run then she'll just kept doing it i ignored her actions and left her alone and she doesn't get the big picture she continues to call n drive by i moved my truck because its not insured so if something happens to my car my insurance will pay for it.

I'm a little confused. Did she really do it because you asked for a prenup or because you broke up with her?

Or is there something you ain't telling us and she really did pull a Tiger Woods?

Barring any wrongdoing on your end, RUN MAN, RUN!

[Bullseye54]

Well, FWIW,if your in lust instead of love & your young & you do get back together,MAKE SURE NO ONE GETS PREGNANT! Besides the fact that you will be tied to her for 18 yrs till kid is legal & lots of monthly pmnts,this crap screws kids up ROYALY. I'm a product of this environment,it sucked.......Bob

[kingsolver72]

Ahh go ahead and marry her...Custer took a chance.

[irishman999]

Originally Posted by Bullseye54

Well, FWIW,if your in lust instead of love & your young & you do get back together,MAKE SURE NO ONE GETS PREGNANT! Besides the fact that you will be tied to her for 18 yrs till kid is legal & lots of monthly pmnts,this crap screws kids up ROYALY. I'm a product of this environment,it sucked.......Bob

X2. I was not even marred and still lost everything trying to get visitation of my son, my lawyer sucked and did not seem to care about my case. He made off with almost 5 grand.

I get to see my son about 3 or 4 days a month, child support cuts into your paycheck pretty deep.

[FleetsidePaul]

I love crazy women I've been married to a couple and had more on the side but they never busted up my stuff like that they usually go after me (1st one came after me with a hammer) like has been said ....RUN BOY RUN!!! this will only get worse trust me..been there done that.. crazy chicks are fun LOL but you can do better

[treveiger]

So im assuming you live alone, she doesnt live with you? She keeps driving by your house thats insane shes crazy, listen to these people because next time she might just come after you. My dads first wife(my mother)came at him with different objects of choice an one time even with a knife so if you think this is a one time deal its not poeple like that dont stop.
Is there anymore to the story, dont hold out on us bro its not like all of us havent delt with a crazy girl before.

[teezyboi817]

Originally Posted by treveiger

So im assuming you live alone, she doesnt live with you? She keeps driving by your house thats insane shes crazy, listen to these people because next time she might just come after you. My dads first wife(my mother)came at him with different objects of choice an one time even with a knife so if you think this is a one time deal its not poeple like that dont stop.
Is there anymore to the story, dont hold out on us bro its not like all of us havent delt with a crazy girl before.

Originally Posted by Bullseye54

Well, FWIW,if your in lust instead of love & your young & you do get back together,MAKE SURE NO ONE GETS PREGNANT! Besides the fact that you will be tied to her for 18 yrs till kid is legal & lots of monthly pmnts,this crap screws kids up ROYALY. I'm a product of this environment,it sucked.......Bob

i have a 2 year old with her OUR birthday is This Saturday

[Bigg G]

If she did that to your truck while it was sitting I'd hate to see what she'd do to you while you were sleeping.

[markeb01]

My former sister-in-law was a domestic homicide victim. I would be very worried.

[Stocker]

Originally Posted by teezyboi817

i have a 2 year old with her OUR birthday is This Saturday

What a lil cutie!! And oh boy doesn't that complicate the situation....

Regardless, you're not married yet, so it's still not too late to terminate your relationship with her mom. It will only be a lot tougher to get rid of her if you marry her. Child or not, that woman will make your life a living hell, and I bet most if not all of the advice you got so far is still valid.

Good luck dealing with all this....

[treveiger]

Ya having a kid changes a lot of things, maybe try a couples therapist or something like that to see if things can be worked out or fixed before you take the big comitment of marrying her. But make sure your always in your daughters life no matter what because in the end thats all that matters.

[ETsC10]

You have one little cutie-bug there.

In light of that, maybe be more concerned that your GF's
violence may jeopardize your child someday. When folks go off the
deep end, you never know if they are at their worst or
if there's bigger/badder tantrums to come.

It's very hard to judge from our seat without knowing
both sides of the coin.

Good Luck!

[cableguy0]

Kid or no kid. Shes a fukn nut and doesnt need to be around. What happens if she throws one of her little tantrums and your kid happens to be in the path of destruction. You shouldnt have much trouble getting custody so long as you documented the incident.

[Bishops Trucks]

Since you have a child together, As of right now and as far back as you can remember, start documenting everything she says and does to you & your daughter. DO NOT loose your cool around her, DO NOT give her any ammunition to use against you. Up to date and thurough documentation will help you in court when ever the need arises.

[rambler]

Originally Posted by Bishops Trucks

Since you have a child together, As of right now and as far back as you can remember, start documenting everything she says and does to you & your daughter. DO NOT loose your cool around her, DO NOT give her any ammunition to use against you. Up to date and thurough documentation will help you in court when ever the need arises.

good advice, and pick up a voice activated mini-recorder..

just in case you are alone,, you wouldn't believe what they can say about you, during a visit,, especially if you dont have a witness to support your side of the story...

[LaraWilde]

I am reading a book at the moment on "women with style".

It states that a woman should NEVER sign a prenup.
a. A woman should play the true love romance card to avoid it
b. If a woman has more money than the man then she should keep hunting for a better husband
c. If a man insists she should refuse to marry him.

It doesn't say anything about taking out a windscreen to get the point across.

Maybe your woman should read the book on what it means to have "style".

There was lots of other advice but I am afraid I will get shot if I mention it here.

(Before I come under attack... I don't have an opinion here nor do I want one... just letting you know what the professional advice in print says)

PS. Sorry to hear about your windscreen... You must be in Lurve

[Shane]

1.) Be a man. Take care of your child.

2.) Be a man. Put the trash on the curb for someone else to pick up.

[kingsolver72]

Don't believe everything you read.

[treveiger]

Originally Posted by LaraWilde

I am reading a book at the moment on "women with style".

It states that a woman should NEVER sign a prenup.
a. A woman should play the true love romance card to avoid it
b. If a woman has more money than the man then she should keep hunting for a better husband
c. If a man insists she should refuse to marry him.

It doesn't say anything about taking out a windscreen to get the point across.

Maybe your woman should read the book on what it means to have "style".

There was lots of other advice but I am afraid I will get shot if I mention it here.

(Before I come under attack... I don't have an opinion here nor do I want one... just letting you know what the professional advice in print says)

PS. Sorry to hear about your windscreen... You must be in Lurve

Not slamming you at all and i think its a smart choice to take advise from some people but take advise from someone thats been there and gone through it not someone who makes millions by writing a book on the "general subject" and hasnt experienced it for themself, for each situation there is different outcome for different choices people make, everybody is different down to the fingerprint and things we do with our life. If he thinks shes going to try an control him and he wants to do write by his daughter and try to make it work then him saving his tail by having her sing a prenub is the right choice for him and her freaking out an smashing his truck with the intent to hurt him... well them maybe it was the best thing to ask and apparently she didnt like it at all and showed him the real her. In the end all that matters is taking care of his baby girl shes the innocent one that did nothing wrond and needs her father even if her mother and father are not together at least she can grow up with two loving parents. Was it a woman who wrote the book? Whats the authers name? Now im not at all trying to attack you but one of the most things i cant stand in this world is phycologist and people that think that theres one answer to the different situations that people are in because theres always something different to each situation.

[chisler]

Half is half, look what she done to your truck you will fix it but she will get half and then some!!!!!!!!

[teezyboi817]

got online today and found out golf clubs can also do this

[Shane]