problem with a board member - The 1947 - Present Chevrolet & GMC Truck Message Board Network

**jerry moss** · 09-15-2002, 09:13 PM

back on the 28th of august i agreed to purchase a "part" from a fellow board member. he was supposed to get me a shipping cost so i could send payment but so far all i have gotten is excuses. a few days ago i went to his original post and asked again for a shipping cost, that way it moved the post back to the top-- he deleted the entire post. most of his excuses are pretty lame--i forgot, i don't have a box big enough,etc. if he doesn't come through with something soon i'll post his user name so nobody else will have to deal with his lack of common courtesy.
when i agree to sell something i always send a shipping cost asap. i purchased the identical "part" from sakohntr the same day and it will be arriving in the next day or two, sakohntr (bruce) is obviously a man of his word.
what would you all do in this situation, post his user name or forget about it ??????

TODDS 72 · 09-15-2002, 09:22 PM

I'd Say POST HIS NAME TO SAVE THE REST OF US THE SAME TROUBLE. JUST MY 2 CENTS.

lofly'a · 09-15-2002, 09:40 PM

i agree, post it (name) and save another board member from possibly going through the same thing. i have bought and sold thru fellow board members, and have always gotten the best of service from them, but there is always the exception.

chevy2racr · 09-15-2002, 09:42 PM

I think we've had enough argueing and all on the board lately that it may be best to just drop it. I mean they are the one thats not getting their part sold. if they don't get right on it its thier loss. thats just my opinion...
Bryce

lofly'a · 09-15-2002, 09:51 PM

arguing and being ripped off of your hard earned dollars is two different things. i believe in diplomacy at all times and i know that if these allegations are true BUT i sure as heck would'nt want to deal with this person. "Above all...INTEGRITY"
i will digress from this subject..............

chevy2racr · 09-15-2002, 09:56 PM

no money has switched hands unless I miss read somethign, I'm jsut sayin if we can avoid this type of thing that'd prolly be best, but I understand that at somepoint somethign needs to be done, I'm not sayin this beating around the bush is rihgt, I'm simply sayin if we deal with someone and they start giving excuses just tell them to forget it then.

Slammed67 · 09-15-2002, 10:28 PM

It wasn't Brian Wolf or his father was it??

(Sorry, couldn't resit)

ebfabman · 09-15-2002, 10:53 PM

The problem isn't necessarily that money has changed hands or not, its that it take resources to try and make a deal. If we know who the game players are then those who are serious about fixing up trucks can be saved from a waste of our resources (time is a big one) Just MHO

Dropped67step · 09-15-2002, 11:29 PM

If he said he had been busy or out of town on work then that would be cool but to say he does not have a box big enought to ship it then why did he put it up for sell I say post his name in the reveiw section thats what it is there for right? But just be thankfull you did not send him the cash I have been ripped off before and it really sucks when you wait for two or three weeks for a part that you need to help finish something and it does not show up. Thats just the way I feel so take it as you will later B.

**ThreeQuarter** · 09-16-2002, 11:54 AM

I think it's very appropriate to post the name. I also think we should use the review board for that.

90\87Formula · 09-16-2002, 06:16 PM

Post his name on the review board. Don't call him an a**hole or whatever. Just give the facts, so nobody else will deal with him.

**jerry moss** · 09-16-2002, 07:52 PM

i'll give him a couple more days just in case he's been too "busy" lol, then i'll post it on the review board and also let Josh know. thanks to all for your input on this matter.

1971LT1SWBPOSI373 · 09-16-2002, 08:08 PM

Post his name.... I don't like it when people waste my time. If they aren't HONEST about the transaction then they shouldn't have posted the part for sale in the first place. Waste somebody elses time, but not mine. And other board members should be warned, just so they don't waste their time dealing with the individual too. The way I see it, you're just doing someone else a favor, and that's my 2 cents worth.

68_GMC_910 · 09-16-2002, 10:52 PM

yeah, post the name... if I were him I'd expect it coming... lol

trinic · 09-17-2002, 10:21 AM

The way I see it, we've only heard this side of
the story. We shouldn't start judging until the
other party explains his part of the story. If for
some reason he doesn't have a box big enough, and
doesn't have the time to get one, then let it be.
Of course, if he's decided not to sell to you, then he needs to come forward and let you know to
look elsewhere, and not waste your time anymore.
Like some of you said, no money was exchanged, so move on. Typically if I'm buying/selling from someone, and I do not get a response from them after 3-4 times, then that means for me to drop the buy or sell and look for another potential buyer or seller. I'd forward these post to him, so that he can be aware of them, and he might have some explaining to do. Just my 2 cents.
Trini C.

**jerry moss** · 09-17-2002, 08:11 PM

things are looking up, he finally responded last night and i'm supposed to have a shipping cost tomorrow--we shall see if it happens.

nu2-72 · 09-17-2002, 08:52 PM

Jerry, good luck. I have a hard time answering this one. I have been stiffed by board members and treated oustandingly by others. One member emailed me and offered to sell me a part that I had been looking for at $80.00. I was not home to check the mail for several days and before I could reply it was posted for $50.00. Sold also.
I think that with people being busy, a fair amount of time should be given for a reply. I know that sometimes e-mail does not work. Try them again.
On the other hand, I have responded to posts asking questions and requesting pics and then decided against the item. Sometimes playing tag takes time and I appreciate each person that has taken the time to fairly represent the item.
Since you have had contact with this person I say try to resolve it to a happy conclusion or to a mutual seperation. If excuses continue, smear em'.
I expect the same.

**jerry moss** · 09-21-2002, 05:56 PM

after almost a month i have a tracking number for a package thats headed west. also ,the package was sent prior to my sending any money.

RON WOODGEARD · 09-21-2002, 06:41 PM

I guess i'm missing something here,!!! If there was no money exchanged, Then there wasn't a deal consumated!! So what's the big deal????

Many of us have lives out and away from this board,I have two other hobbies besides my truck. and there are times I don't get to this board for many days. (i haven't touched my truck for more then a week now) I've been busy with my R/C and horses. I have e-mailed some of you directly with questions on parts and just questions in general, and never gotten a response. I didn't try to chastise anyone.

I had someone here tell me they wanted a part that I had, And it took me FOREVER to get back with them on a shipping cost, When I e-mailed him the shipping cost, I never heard back from him! But I sure don't consider him a BAD PERSON, or someone that I wouldn't want any of you to deal with. If I would have sent him money and not heard from him then it would have been a different thing altogether.Or if he would have promised to buy something and I took it off of the boards and never seen the money, that again would have also been another thing.
I'm sorry guys! I think this is blown out of proportion, And to boot this guy sent him the part with NO MONEY, what more can you expect from a person?? Now I would like to know who the member is because he's a VERY STANDUP GUY!!!!! He went further then I would have or I dare say MOST of YOU..

I e-mailed a guy with a price on a RADIO CONTROL plane I had for sale, I never heard back from him for over a week whether he wanted it or not, I sold it to the next guy in line. A couple of days later the first guy contacted me and wanted paypent instructions. How much time should I have given him? HE wasn't upset.

If I sell something in person, it's first come first served.That's why I go the E-BAY route.

I agree with BRYCE, NO money NO harm.

RON

1971LT1SWBPOSI373 · 09-21-2002, 11:09 PM

I guess i'm missing something here,!!! If there was no money exchanged, Then there wasn't a deal consumated!! So what's the big deal????

I don't like it when people waste my time. If they aren't HONEST about the transaction then they shouldn't have posted the part for sale in the first place. Waste somebody elses time, but not mine. And other board members should be warned, just so they don't waste their time dealing with the individual too. The way I see it, you're just doing someone else a favor

**jerry moss** · 09-29-2002, 10:37 PM

i got the part finally and i also sent payment to him.

as for ron woodgeard's remarks, i have a life outside trucks too but if i make a commitment to sell a part i take care of my end of the deal as quickly as possible, it makes me feel good about myself if i don't leave someone hanging for a week or more waiting for me.

meathead95 · 09-30-2002, 12:35 AM

i agree with jerry a deal is a deal

Maximum Overdrive · 09-30-2002, 10:43 AM

If your going to offer parts for sale then you have no excuses on why you cannot get a box, shipping charges, or the parts out etc. etc. In other words dont offer parts for sale if you cannot complete the transaction in a timely fashion.

09-15-2002, 09:13 PM	#1
jerry moss Born Psycho Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: brentwood,cal,usa Posts: 4,863	problem with a board member back on the 28th of august i agreed to purchase a "part" from a fellow board member. he was supposed to get me a shipping cost so i could send payment but so far all i have gotten is excuses. a few days ago i went to his original post and asked again for a shipping cost, that way it moved the post back to the top-- he deleted the entire post. most of his excuses are pretty lame--i forgot, i don't have a box big enough,etc. if he doesn't come through with something soon i'll post his user name so nobody else will have to deal with his lack of common courtesy. when i agree to sell something i always send a shipping cost asap. i purchased the identical "part" from sakohntr the same day and it will be arriving in the next day or two, sakohntr (bruce) is obviously a man of his word. what would you all do in this situation, post his user name or forget about it ?????? __________________ jerry moss 72 cheyenne super K20- tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,tow hooks,bumper guards,toolbox,aux. fuel tank,posi front and rear,plus other goodies!!! SOLD 69 suburban K20-tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,4 inch all spring lift,4 speed, 14 bolt full floater, dana 44 HD,warn winch,posi front and rear,tow hooks,plus other goodies. 73/80 chevy/gmc K20 SB400,turbo 400,205,tilt,a-c,gas hog. 77 K/5 cheyenne blazer-daily driver/beater. SON HAS IT NOW BRENTWOOD,CALIFORNIA

09-15-2002, 09:22 PM	#2
TODDS 72 Not the nightly winner Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: CHARLEMONT MA.USA Posts: 763	I'd Say POST HIS NAME TO SAVE THE REST OF US THE SAME TROUBLE. JUST MY 2 CENTS. __________________ 72C10SWB BLUE 350/350 86K10LWB BLUE 5.7 700r4 7.5' fisher plow 93S10XCAB4X4 BLUE 4.3 4L60e 69gmc c10 v8 3 on the tree yellow 72k10 swb 350 3 on the tree green 86k15 swb5.0L 4spd brown

09-15-2002, 09:40 PM	#3
lofly'a Registered User Join Date: May 2000 Location: Alexandria, LA 71301 Posts: 1,451	i agree, post it (name) and save another board member from possibly going through the same thing. i have bought and sold thru fellow board members, and have always gotten the best of service from them, but there is always the exception. __________________ -02 avalanche (daily driver) -66 gto ragtop 389/400 (garage queen, hand-me-down from dad) -72 Tribute Trans Am (6.0LS/T56 6-speed) in progress -2003 YUKON (Wife's) -71 gmc swb fleet (current project, gonna shave everything, bags, stuff w/ 20's, gen III powertrain) -48 3100 SWB - 12/31/23 LONG TERM Project

09-15-2002, 09:42 PM	#4
chevy2racr So Many Ideas, So Little Money Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Marshalltown, IA Posts: 1,610	I think we've had enough argueing and all on the board lately that it may be best to just drop it. I mean they are the one thats not getting their part sold. if they don't get right on it its thier loss. thats just my opinion... Bryce __________________ 72 Blazer 3/4 ton running gear 4.10s NP205/TH350 350 4in lift half doors 71 C10 with 454 99 S-10 5.1L SBC 700R4 09 Malibu Marshalltown, Iowa

09-15-2002, 09:51 PM	#5
lofly'a Registered User Join Date: May 2000 Location: Alexandria, LA 71301 Posts: 1,451	arguing and being ripped off of your hard earned dollars is two different things. i believe in diplomacy at all times and i know that if these allegations are true BUT i sure as heck would'nt want to deal with this person. "Above all...INTEGRITY" i will digress from this subject.............. __________________ -02 avalanche (daily driver) -66 gto ragtop 389/400 (garage queen, hand-me-down from dad) -72 Tribute Trans Am (6.0LS/T56 6-speed) in progress -2003 YUKON (Wife's) -71 gmc swb fleet (current project, gonna shave everything, bags, stuff w/ 20's, gen III powertrain) -48 3100 SWB - 12/31/23 LONG TERM Project

09-15-2002, 09:56 PM	#6
chevy2racr So Many Ideas, So Little Money Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Marshalltown, IA Posts: 1,610	no money has switched hands unless I miss read somethign, I'm jsut sayin if we can avoid this type of thing that'd prolly be best, but I understand that at somepoint somethign needs to be done, I'm not sayin this beating around the bush is rihgt, I'm simply sayin if we deal with someone and they start giving excuses just tell them to forget it then. __________________ 72 Blazer 3/4 ton running gear 4.10s NP205/TH350 350 4in lift half doors 71 C10 with 454 99 S-10 5.1L SBC 700R4 09 Malibu Marshalltown, Iowa

09-15-2002, 10:28 PM	#7
Slammed67 Progress = 0% Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Kansas City, MO Posts: 2,108	It wasn't Brian Wolf or his father was it?? (Sorry, couldn't resit) __________________ Jason - '67 GMC swb \| '57 Bel-Air 4dr hardtop \| '56 210 4dr Wagon \| 2000 GMC Sierra

09-15-2002, 10:53 PM	#8
ebfabman Registered User Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Concord, NC Posts: 2,489	The problem isn't necessarily that money has changed hands or not, its that it take resources to try and make a deal. If we know who the game players are then those who are serious about fixing up trucks can be saved from a waste of our resources (time is a big one) Just MHO

09-15-2002, 11:29 PM	#9
Dropped67step Gearhead since birth Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Ft. Worth TX. Posts: 190	If he said he had been busy or out of town on work then that would be cool but to say he does not have a box big enought to ship it then why did he put it up for sell I say post his name in the reveiw section thats what it is there for right? But just be thankfull you did not send him the cash I have been ripped off before and it really sucks when you wait for two or three weeks for a part that you need to help finish something and it does not show up. Thats just the way I feel so take it as you will later B.

09-16-2002, 11:54 AM	#10
ThreeQuarter Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Texan in Iowa Posts: 2,522	I think it's very appropriate to post the name. I also think we should use the review board for that. __________________ Ben '68 Chevy C10 Custom LWB 327/TH400 2nd owner '16 GMC Sierra 1500 SLE Dblcab 4wd 5.3

09-16-2002, 06:16 PM	#11
90\87Formula Registered User $90\87Formula's Avatar$ Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Abilene Texas Posts: 1,756	Post his name on the review board. Don't call him an a**hole or whatever. Just give the facts, so nobody else will deal with him. __________________ Robert Member 1532
$90\87Formula is offline$

09-16-2002, 07:52 PM	#12
jerry moss Born Psycho Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: brentwood,cal,usa Posts: 4,863	i'll give him a couple more days just in case he's been too "busy" lol, then i'll post it on the review board and also let Josh know. thanks to all for your input on this matter. __________________ jerry moss 72 cheyenne super K20- tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,tow hooks,bumper guards,toolbox,aux. fuel tank,posi front and rear,plus other goodies!!! SOLD 69 suburban K20-tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,4 inch all spring lift,4 speed, 14 bolt full floater, dana 44 HD,warn winch,posi front and rear,tow hooks,plus other goodies. 73/80 chevy/gmc K20 SB400,turbo 400,205,tilt,a-c,gas hog. 77 K/5 cheyenne blazer-daily driver/beater. SON HAS IT NOW BRENTWOOD,CALIFORNIA

09-16-2002, 08:08 PM	#13
1971LT1SWBPOSI373 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Springfield, VA Posts: 460	Post his name.... I don't like it when people waste my time. If they aren't HONEST about the transaction then they shouldn't have posted the part for sale in the first place. Waste somebody elses time, but not mine. And other board members should be warned, just so they don't waste their time dealing with the individual too. The way I see it, you're just doing someone else a favor, and that's my 2 cents worth. __________________ 1971 Shortbed 350/350 w/ Posi-traction 3:73's 1996 Chevy Silverado TJ in Springfield, Virginia Likes old Chevy trucks Drinks Miller MGD

09-16-2002, 10:52 PM	#14
68_GMC_910 what would Neal do? Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada Posts: 150	yeah, post the name... if I were him I'd expect it coming... lol __________________ 1968 GMC 910 Long Step 250/3onTree 1969 Chevy C10 longfleet, 350/350

09-17-2002, 10:21 AM	#15
trinic Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Wide awake Wylie (North Texas) Posts: 322	The way I see it, we've only heard this side of the story. We shouldn't start judging until the other party explains his part of the story. If for some reason he doesn't have a box big enough, and doesn't have the time to get one, then let it be. Of course, if he's decided not to sell to you, then he needs to come forward and let you know to look elsewhere, and not waste your time anymore. Like some of you said, no money was exchanged, so move on. Typically if I'm buying/selling from someone, and I do not get a response from them after 3-4 times, then that means for me to drop the buy or sell and look for another potential buyer or seller. I'd forward these post to him, so that he can be aware of them, and he might have some explaining to do. Just my 2 cents. Trini C.



Register or Log In To remove these advertisements.

09-17-2002, 08:11 PM	#16
jerry moss Born Psycho Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: brentwood,cal,usa Posts: 4,863	things are looking up, he finally responded last night and i'm supposed to have a shipping cost tomorrow--we shall see if it happens. __________________ jerry moss 72 cheyenne super K20- tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,tow hooks,bumper guards,toolbox,aux. fuel tank,posi front and rear,plus other goodies!!! SOLD 69 suburban K20-tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,4 inch all spring lift,4 speed, 14 bolt full floater, dana 44 HD,warn winch,posi front and rear,tow hooks,plus other goodies. 73/80 chevy/gmc K20 SB400,turbo 400,205,tilt,a-c,gas hog. 77 K/5 cheyenne blazer-daily driver/beater. SON HAS IT NOW BRENTWOOD,CALIFORNIA

09-17-2002, 08:52 PM	#17
nu2-72 Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Amazonia, Mo. USA Posts: 2,821	Jerry, good luck. I have a hard time answering this one. I have been stiffed by board members and treated oustandingly by others. One member emailed me and offered to sell me a part that I had been looking for at $80.00. I was not home to check the mail for several days and before I could reply it was posted for $50.00. Sold also. I think that with people being busy, a fair amount of time should be given for a reply. I know that sometimes e-mail does not work. Try them again. On the other hand, I have responded to posts asking questions and requesting pics and then decided against the item. Sometimes playing tag takes time and I appreciate each person that has taken the time to fairly represent the item. Since you have had contact with this person I say try to resolve it to a happy conclusion or to a mutual seperation. If excuses continue, smear em'. I expect the same. __________________ 72 3/4 4x4 350 4spd 72 3/4 4x4 350 auto 2004 Duramax Silverado 4x4 2006 Duramax Crew cab 4x4 2010 Harley Ultra Limited 2011 Harley Street Glide

09-21-2002, 05:56 PM	#18
jerry moss Born Psycho Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: brentwood,cal,usa Posts: 4,863	after almost a month i have a tracking number for a package thats headed west. also ,the package was sent prior to my sending any money. __________________ jerry moss 72 cheyenne super K20- tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,tow hooks,bumper guards,toolbox,aux. fuel tank,posi front and rear,plus other goodies!!! SOLD 69 suburban K20-tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,4 inch all spring lift,4 speed, 14 bolt full floater, dana 44 HD,warn winch,posi front and rear,tow hooks,plus other goodies. 73/80 chevy/gmc K20 SB400,turbo 400,205,tilt,a-c,gas hog. 77 K/5 cheyenne blazer-daily driver/beater. SON HAS IT NOW BRENTWOOD,CALIFORNIA

09-21-2002, 06:41 PM	#19
RON WOODGEARD Resident Young Old Dude ! Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Nevada Posts: 1,948	I guess i'm missing something here,!!! If there was no money exchanged, Then there wasn't a deal consumated!! So what's the big deal???? Many of us have lives out and away from this board,I have two other hobbies besides my truck. and there are times I don't get to this board for many days. (i haven't touched my truck for more then a week now) I've been busy with my R/C and horses. I have e-mailed some of you directly with questions on parts and just questions in general, and never gotten a response. I didn't try to chastise anyone. I had someone here tell me they wanted a part that I had, And it took me FOREVER to get back with them on a shipping cost, When I e-mailed him the shipping cost, I never heard back from him! But I sure don't consider him a BAD PERSON, or someone that I wouldn't want any of you to deal with. If I would have sent him money and not heard from him then it would have been a different thing altogether.Or if he would have promised to buy something and I took it off of the boards and never seen the money, that again would have also been another thing. I'm sorry guys! I think this is blown out of proportion, And to boot this guy sent him the part with NO MONEY, what more can you expect from a person?? Now I would like to know who the member is because he's a VERY STANDUP GUY!!!!! He went further then I would have or I dare say MOST of YOU.. I e-mailed a guy with a price on a RADIO CONTROL plane I had for sale, I never heard back from him for over a week whether he wanted it or not, I sold it to the next guy in line. A couple of days later the first guy contacted me and wanted paypent instructions. How much time should I have given him? HE wasn't upset. If I sell something in person, it's first come first served.That's why I go the E-BAY route. I agree with BRYCE, NO money NO harm. RON

09-21-2002, 11:09 PM	#20
1971LT1SWBPOSI373 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Springfield, VA Posts: 460	Re I guess i'm missing something here,!!! If there was no money exchanged, Then there wasn't a deal consumated!! So what's the big deal???? I don't like it when people waste my time. If they aren't HONEST about the transaction then they shouldn't have posted the part for sale in the first place. Waste somebody elses time, but not mine. And other board members should be warned, just so they don't waste their time dealing with the individual too. The way I see it, you're just doing someone else a favor __________________ 1971 Shortbed 350/350 w/ Posi-traction 3:73's 1996 Chevy Silverado TJ in Springfield, Virginia Likes old Chevy trucks Drinks Miller MGD

09-29-2002, 10:37 PM	#21
jerry moss Born Psycho Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: brentwood,cal,usa Posts: 4,863	i got the part finally and i also sent payment to him. as for ron woodgeard's remarks, i have a life outside trucks too but if i make a commitment to sell a part i take care of my end of the deal as quickly as possible, it makes me feel good about myself if i don't leave someone hanging for a week or more waiting for me. __________________ jerry moss 72 cheyenne super K20- tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,tow hooks,bumper guards,toolbox,aux. fuel tank,posi front and rear,plus other goodies!!! SOLD 69 suburban K20-tilt,tach,vacuum,speedwarning,buckets,shoulder belts,am/fm,4 inch all spring lift,4 speed, 14 bolt full floater, dana 44 HD,warn winch,posi front and rear,tow hooks,plus other goodies. 73/80 chevy/gmc K20 SB400,turbo 400,205,tilt,a-c,gas hog. 77 K/5 cheyenne blazer-daily driver/beater. SON HAS IT NOW BRENTWOOD,CALIFORNIA

09-30-2002, 12:35 AM	#22
meathead95 computer illiterate Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Des Moines, IA Posts: 6,446	i agree with jerry a deal is a deal __________________ 72 2wd blazer 72 swb 4x4

09-30-2002, 10:43 AM	#23
Maximum Overdrive December 21, 2012 Join Date: Apr 2000 Location: Black Eagle, Montana Posts: 1,634	If your going to offer parts for sale then you have no excuses on why you cannot get a box, shipping charges, or the parts out etc. etc. In other words dont offer parts for sale if you cannot complete the transaction in a timely fashion. __________________ *"!Ama Sua, Ama Kjella, Ama Lllulla!"*

Register or Log In To remove these advertisements.